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Picking Sides

From: Ed
Category: Category 1
Date: 28 Apr 1999
Time: 21:11:45
Remote Name: atl2-wc1.atlas.digex.net

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Recently I went through a berakup with a woman who I've been involved with for several years. We went through several attempts at spliting up befor but we always ended up back togather thinking " it will be difrent this time". This time I refused to try again. Now she seems to want to pull all our friends into the situation. She seems to be trying to get at me any way she can. The more I have ignored the situation the more she trys to cause a confrontation. She has done everything from trying to sleep with my sponsor to hiting on a sponsee of mine who is in a halfway house and could get kicked out if he gets involved with her. All these things (and more) are getting real sick. She doesn't seem to care who gets hurt so long as she can jerk my chain and most people who KNOW her see what is happening. Now she is focusing on newcomers.She has a history of this and has gotten real sick with it over the years.She has several years clean so they listen to her.It's asif she wants to split every one into two groups, her side - and My side. It's just not fair to our friends and especialy the newcomers.


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